The supposed “spiritual war” between men and women is a myth; the real conflict is physical and generational—youth versus age. Resources flow downward, leaving young adults of both sexes asset-poor while older generations hoard housing, wealth, and institutional power. Fertility peaks early, yet marriage and parenthood are delayed by unaffordable homes, inflated degrees, and rigged markets controlled by Boomers and Gen X. Culture wars camouflage this transfer: dating apps profit from frustration, pundits scold the young, and algorithms pit sexes against each other. Evidence—housing costs, tuition hikes, falling birth rates—exposes the gerontocracy. Victory lies not in gender fixes but in cross-sex youth alliances demanding structural reform: zoning changes, apprenticeships, mutual aid. The future belongs to those who fight time, not each other.